I was discussing with a friend now and he made a statement that he can give his girlfriend money, If she asks, but he can’t give her money for a phone now. Then I answered and said, I personally don’t like the idea of asking.
The truth is that there is no rule stopping anyone from giving money to his girlfriend or even on how frequent it should be.
Like I said earlier, I don’t like asking, I don’t even like the idea of asking. I’ve had discussions with friends, argued with some about this issue. Some people believe in tasking their partners and I’ll always say, your boyfriend does not owe you the duty of giving you money at all, it’s not his duty.
If he pays something for you once in a while, good for you just remember he’s not your piggybank.
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I had a crush on a particular lady like a year ago, she wanted to get a new phone, I helped her get where she will get a fairly used one because that is what she needed at that particular time. And while we wanna pay, the money was not enough, I added to it so she can get the phone.
A year later she is still using the phone and I was like WTF? I had it mind to add to whatever she is having when she wants to get a new phone. Now why all these? She is not my girlfriend but I did all those because she was first my friend before anything could happen. If you deeply need something and I see the need for you to get it, I can go to whatever extent (legally sha) so you can get it. Now let us say the person in question is my girlfriend, I guess she will enjoy moi. Siji I have answered your question o, lol
I think there is a different between getting a lady something and she demanding the whole world from you. If the guy has the power to do what ever she *wanted* or asked for, fine. But when you now start to *bill* the poor guy, you are already turning him to piggybank lol.
so I guess you are okay with giving your partner everything, ladies where you at, someone is ready to spoil someone’s daughter.
Hmm, nice one siji. I feel we all view issues like this from different perspectives. If my gf wants a phone and I have a money I am not using LOL, I might give her… I will not borrow or break the bank because she wants to satisfy a need. Whenever we go out, I feel it is my responsibility to pay for whatever we buy except she decides to.
Hmmmm, there’s a condition to giving her things, if you’re not using the money. NIce
I enjoy reading ur writeups. Good job
Thank you
I feel some girls just forget that everyone is hustling.
True tho, we all have to be mindful of this
It all depends on the lady….but personally, I don’t like it, it’s okay if it’s coincidental or just effortlessly. I wouldn’t ask for something, if you feel I need it, you can surprise me by getting it, lol. It’s just who you are.
Everyone has their own view on this , and I like the idea of suprises
Hmmm….I don’t think it’s wrong in Billing ones boo
It depends on the lady…I can’t do it oh😂….but I just think it shouldn’t be everytime
There should be a limit to everything, I totally agree
It is irresponsibility for a lady to totally depend on a guy for anything at all. If I see the importance of the need or want and I can afford it, I will surely get it, it’s one of those things that you have to do in a relationship as a guy..However, just like Edward said, I won’t die or go broke just to satisfy a lady, I’m not your daddy or husband yet. It’s nice to buy things for your girl, it doesn’t even have to be your girlfriend, but it is not mandatory.
Good point, it’s actually not nice to totally depend on someone
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